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" MARRIAGE ALWAYS HOLDS YOUR PARTNERS HAPPINESS HOSTAGE, AND THE PRICE OF RANSOM IS ALWAYS YOUR DEVELOPMENT!" david shnarch...

I saw this quote a week ago and I cannot get it out of my mind... I know at first reading it doesn't sound like a very uplifting quote. But how I interpret this way... the reason your happiness is held hostage is because you should be trying to make sure the other is happy no matter the cost!!! If you chose too pay the Ransom and chose to find happiness on your own you can't because you just gave up your development! And the only way too develop into a good person is putting people before yourself.

Being in love can sometimes seem like a curse, because no matter the pain you are dragged through, you wake up the next morning hoping for a better day, and the only comfort you can get is from the one who hurts you the most!!! Love is like an addiction that you need to survive!
You can never give up call it quits because you are in love!!! You've created a home together you've created life together you can't escape that!

When you yell at them too get out, all you can think of as soon as that door slams is "when are they coming back"! They are your only source of True Happiness!!!

And Marriage is so Hard! Oh sure it is amazing at the same time!!!
But Just when you think you've got it together REALITY HITS!!!
Bills, money, work, family, kids, friends, pets, neighbors, church,illness, death comes into play and you've got too deal with all that too!!!!!

TRUE LOVE IN JAYCI CHINO'S OPINON IS THIS!!!
Having a terrible fight, wanting too shut it all out, run away, coming back home, husband in the shower with Reese getting her ready for bed, and Your love needs his neck shaved, so you shave it make him look nice and neat, and he turns and says Come here I am sorry about today give me a kiss!!!! Close my eyes and somehow through that small wet peck in the shower everything seems too be OKAY!!!

AH LOVE!!!! DAMN LOVE!!!! LOVE LOVE!!!